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Wooden Bowl

by Wendy

A Preparation and lesson for old age

  To all, look with your eyes..but really look hard deep within your heart…..

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year old grandson. The old man’s hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered.The family ate together at the table.

But the elderly grandfather’s shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor.When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess.

We must do something about Grandfather,” said the son. I’ve had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner.

Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather’s direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.The four-year-old watched it all in silence.

One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, “What are you making?”Just as sweetly, the boy responded, “Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food when I grow up.” The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.

The words so struck the parents that they were speechless.Tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done. That evening the husband took Grandfather’s Hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his Days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.Children are remarkably perceptive.

Their eyes ever observe, their ears ever listen, and their minds ever process the messages they absorb.If they see us patiently provide a happy home atmosphere for family members, they will imitate that attitude for the rest of their lives. The wise parent realizes that every day the building blocks are being laid for the child’s future.

Let’s be wise builders and role models.“Life is about people connecting with people, and making a positive difference” Take care of yourself, and those you love, … today, and everyday!

That regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life.That making a “living” is not the same thing as making a “life.”That if you pursue happiness,  it will elude you. But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you.

Sometimes they just need a little something to make them smile. People will forget what you said … people will forget what you did…but people will never forget how you made them feel. Happiness always looks small when you hold it in your hands … But when you learn to share it, you will realize how big and precious it is!!   


Wendy


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Jeff Greene Committed   Online Marketing Specialist/Consultant
And that story should be part and parcel of everyone life, especially those who are in business... What an inspiring way to think of one's self while we are on our journeys-- It is never to late become Human again.
Nov 2nd 2007 10:35   
Cheryl Baumgartner Professional Premium   Medical Billing/Coding/Insurance
This is a touching story. My mom passed from cancer. luckily she did not linger incapacitated for long, just a couple of days. But she did grow weak and needed help with getting in and out of the tub and dressing. She looked at me one day and said "you should not have to help dress me".

I sat her on the edge of the bed and told her. "After all the dirty diapers, midnight feedings and the the peas incident(I will post that one later on, it's good for a laugh). This is the least I can do, you took care of me now it's my turn to take care of you."
Nov 2nd 2007 10:57   
Wendy Senior   
I have to agree

As out parents and or ourselves grow we have to the dignity or indignities we may or they may be put thru

One of theses days it will be us and pray that our kids will understand and be human as well

I know my youngest son will as he works a home for the aged and understands completely

Wendy
Nov 7th 2007 17:50   
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