It’s
very common for men to be concerned about their manhood size, particularly in
terms of length. One study of over 52,000 male and female participants,
published in the journal Psychology of Men and Masculinity, found that, while
only 16% of men had male organs below the average 4.5-6.1 inch tumescent length
range, a full 45% were unhappy with their male organ length and felt their
members should be longer. This sense of inadequacy is, for many men, a cause of
stress, but not a full-blown mental disorder. They may wonder if the perceived
smaller size is an indicator of poor male
organ health or question their
sensual abilities, but not to the point of letting it affect their behavior.
For some, obsession over the size of the male organ is significant enough to
take a toll on sensual, mental and physical health. These men may be
experiencing small male organ syndrome.
Small
male organ syndrome may be present when a man avoids intimate contact
completely or for the most part because he fears ridicule from partners and
feels a deep sense of shame about what he’s packing. There are several possible
components of small male organ syndrome discussed below. Not all men with the
condition may experience each one, but it’s smart to get familiar with the many
different ways in which it can manifest. Knowing what to look for and how to
treat it may help men combat this disruptive condition.
Negative
View of Women
Some
men with small male organ syndrome may have rigid, generalized views of women –
specifically, that women are ridiculing, judgmental and have high expectations
in terms of male organ size that must be met or else men will be dispensed
with. This view of women often steers men away from cultivating any kind of
relationship with actual women, thereby preventing them from adopting a more
accurate and nuanced view of the opposite gender. (It should be noted in this
vein that, of women who participated in the abovementioned study, 84% were
pleased with their partners’ male organs, as opposed to only 55% of men.
Concern with length is mostly a male problem.)
“Inverted
Narcissism”
Narcissism
is a psychological condition in which the individual tends to see himself as
the center of the universe and treats others as objects for his use. A man who
is fixated on his male organ length does the opposite, in a way: He thinks of
himself as an object (male organ) for the use of other, more powerful beings
(women), and he fears that he will fail to be a “useful” object because of his
perceived length deficit.
Distorted
Ideas of Average Length
As
the study above noted, many men who are well within the average range perceive
their male organs to be too small. For some with small male organ syndrome,
their beliefs may be too rigid to be dispelled by simply learning about average
size and comparing their own measurements. They may have a hard time believing
the data gathered from well-structured studies into the topic because they’ve
seen too many inflated self-reported measurements on internet forums and giant
members in stimulating videos to trust the much tamer and more realistic
figures presented by science.
Distorted
Ideas of Sensual Capacity
Most
men don’t realize just how short the average female organ is (about three
inches, expanding to four or more when the woman is stimulated). Also, the
G-spot is located within the first 3 inches of the organ on the front wall.
There are very, very few male organs too short to reach it in the world. Even
men on the truly smaller side can employ different techniques in bed – such as
asking the woman to squeeze her thighs together or using rear-entrance
positions – to make for a longer, deeper feel.
Of
course, if men have a negative view of women as described above, this physical
education might not console them, as they may think that women’s supposed
desire for a super-long member comes not from physical sources but more
psychological origins.
Body
Dysmorphia
Generally
discussed in the context of eating disorders, body dysmorphia occurs when a
person sees his or her body completely differently than it actually appears. A
very thin woman may look in a mirror, for example, and see herself as
overweight. Similarly, a man with small male organ syndrome may suffer from a
literal inability to accurately view the size of his member.
The
intimate and social implications of small male organ syndrome are clear. Men
who suspect they may have this condition should seek out the help of a
therapist. Cognitive behavioral therapy may be particularly helpful; in
sessions, patients work with their therapist to identify inaccurate beliefs,
thoughts and feelings, then take concrete steps to replace them with more
accurate cognitions.
Of
course, a little concern with the appearance of the male organ isn’t always a
bad thing. Using a male organ
health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man
Oil) to
keep the skin soft and stretchy can assist in confidence and function. Look for
a crème with nutrients like vitamin C for healthy blood flow and youthful
appearance. Nerve support will also be a feature of the highest-quality crème –
acetyl L-carnitine is a useful ingredient for this. Function is more important
than length, and using a male organ health product can help in this department.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com
for additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips on
improving male organ sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy male
organ. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health
issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.