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Treat Special Children with Compassion

by Janvi Ahuja Content Developer,SEO Consultant,
Man is a social animal. We all have our needs from the society. The need to get appreciated, loved, inspired and accepted is what defines and nurtures the human character. It acts as manure for human blossoms. And when someone is devoid of this social assistance, we observe crooks, social threats, and healthy individuals who are so mentally depressed that they have nothing constructive to make out from this life.

Well, children with special needs are no different from us. When social inclusion is imperative for a healthy and sound individual, it is outright vital for someone who needs some help in existing by the common means. However, parents and special children schools are witness; all we offer in return is alienation and pity. We look upon them as abnormal and some even get down tagging them as that.

A behavioural expert who is also a social worker working at a school for mental retardation calls this as something that not only reflects on our insensitivity but it causes irreparable damage to their students. Children bullying them or people eying them with suspicion or pity, doesn’t go unnoticed by even the quietest of autistic children. Instead, it leaves a deep impression on them. These children lose confidence in their abilities which is their only hope of making progress.

So, the next time one treats a child improperly, he should remember that by doing this they might be extinguishing his chance of survival. These children are soft at heart and sensitive towards feelings. They can sense reproach and ignorance, love and care. So offer them what they need the most, advices a teacher at a special children school.

So, the next time you see or meet a child with difficulty, remember to be nice to them. In case you know someone with a special child closely, here is how you can deal with the interaction.

  • Introduce yourself and don’t shy away. Be gentle and initiate the conversation.

  • Bring along a small gift, like a toy or chocolate; it will help break some ice.

  • Don’t treat him as he’s sick. These children hate being over-cuddled and being pitied over. They are just different and not sick.

  • Even if he’s not social and doesn’t respond back, he can be very much attentive. So, watch your actions and words before him.

  • Don’t ever call him anything like abnormal, disabled or underdeveloped. It is inhuman and discourteous to him and his family. Besides, calling or referring to a person by their name is a much decent way of establishing a bond.

So, try getting closer to a family or an institute where they care for such children, and it will alter your perspective towards them and life.

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About Janvi Ahuja Advanced   Content Developer,SEO Consultant,

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