Six Pre-Coupling Mistakes to Avoid
by John Dugan OwnerA man with a firm male organ is a man that is
ready to get down to business, but that "let's get it started"
attitude can lead to any number of pre-coupling mistakes and therefore to
sensual activity that may be satisfying only for one of the participants – namely,
the one with the appendage that was in such a hurry. While there are other
factors (such as maintaining appropriate male organ health) that are important
to a couple's romantic life, avoiding pre-coupling mistakes is necessary for
long-term romantic compatibility.
With that in mind, the following are a few
common pre-coupling mistakes that a man should avoid, painfully firm male organ
or not.
1) Not engaging in pre-coupling play.
This is really a no-brainer. While it's true
that there are some couples who are so well-matched that they can almost always
skip pre-coupling prep activities and have a mutually satisfying sensual
experience, these couples are few and far between. For most couples, some form
of pre-coupling play is necessary most of the time if both partners are going
to get the most out of the experience.
2) Going by the book.
Some guys think they have the pre-coupling
thing all figured out and follow the same routine each time with little or no
variation. This may work sometimes, but it won't always. A woman, like a man,
tends to feel differently from moment to moment, so there's no reason to assume
that the routine that worked last night is going to work tonight. Guys need to
try to be "in the moment" and attuned to how the partner is reacting
to each kiss, caress and whisper so they can alter their approach in response
to her reactions.
3) Being too narrowly focused.
Because a guy is interested in letting his
partner's female organ envelop that aching firm male organ, he tends to focus
most, if not all, of his attention on his lady's privates. There's some benefit
in that, but most women prefer more of a "total body" approach:
plenty of kissing and hugging; a minimum amount of vocal communication; and
touching other areas, such as the breasts, the buttocks, the arms, etc.
4) Talking too little – or too much.
As mentioned above, a minimum amount of vocal
communication is an essential part of pre-coupling play. Exactly how much will
vary from person to person. Some women like a little dirty talk; some like a
lot; some are repulsed by it. Some women love compliments about their looks,
their aroma, their skin, their hair, their ardor; others find it clichéd. Guys
will need to experiment with finding the right topics and then figure out how
much to say for maximum effect with any given partner.
5) Applying too much pressure.
Sometimes men get a little too intense with
their pre-coupling activities; the touches and fondles exert too much physical
pressure and go from producing pleasurable sensations to creating pain. A man
needs to always be sensitive to how his partner is reacting so he can adjust
his actions accordingly. And remember, it's always okay to ask, "Does this
feel alright?" or, "Would you like me to do anything
differently?"
6) Sporting an unappealing tool.
Although men focus on their equipment
constantly, they don't always give it the appraising look it needs. A member
that has flaky skin patches or that emits an unpleasant smell is going to be a
turn-off to partners.
Avoiding pre-coupling mistakes takes
practice, but attending to an unappealing tool requires a little extra help. If
a man's firm male organ has skin irritation or a disturbing odor, he can start
using a quality male organ health cream (health professionals recommend Man1
Man Oil). For best results, he should find a cream that packs in a
combination of moisturizers, such as Shea butter (a high-end emollient) and
vitamin E (a natural hydrator). Unwanted male organ odor can be addressed if
the cream also contains vitamin A, which is blessed with strong anti-bacterial
properties that attack causes of distressing odors.
Visit
http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most
common male organ health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity, and
what to do to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer
who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to
numerous websites.
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