Self-pleasure Techniques to Try Tonight
by John Dugan OwnerJust like any sensual relationship, things can get a little stale
if it’s the same old in-and-out, and that includes solo-play. Excite the man
downstairs by making him feel special with a few new self-pleasure techniques.
Not only will it feel good now, but it can also lead to extra-spicy relations
with a partner down the line.
Self-pleasure Technique #1: Slow Down,
Cowboy
Yes, a man is the master of his domain. He can get himself off in
one minute or less. However, how enjoyable is it to just quickly do it and then
move on with the day? Not very. Sure, a quickie is okay on occasion, but a man
should treat himself to a more prolonged, pleasurable experience. Instead of
focusing on the end-result (release), think similarly as one would with a
partner. This creates greater anticipation and a stronger release, but it also
translates to better lovemaking with a partner.
Self-pleasure Technique #2: The
Hand-Screw
Start the process by standing with a nicely creme-up hand. Then
twist the hand so that the thumb is facing the navel. Wrap the hand around the
member and thrust the member in and out of the hand rather than pumping with
the hand. Be careful on hardwood or tiled floors – no one wants to slip and
explain it to an EMT.
Self-pleasure Technique #3: Do the
Stop-Start
This is a technique where it works the same way it sounds. It’s
also known as “edging.” While this technique is for any man, many men who have
release issues use it as a therapeutic way to increase the duration of
relations. The idea is to prolong the pleasure.
Here's how to do it. Start stroking, and then about 30 seconds
before release, stop, and let the body retreat for a moment. Then, start up
again, slowly working up to the moment and then pulling back right before
what’s called “a feeling of inevitability.” (Fans of The League will know this
as the “vinegar strokes.”) This is when a man can feel his seed moving through
his privates. Repeat as preferred and then enjoy the massive release that
awaits at the very end.
Not only is this a more-intense release, but it also helps a man
control his hard-on and his release with a partner. The more in-tune he is with
his body, the more a man can control his end of the sensual experience with a
partner.
Self-pleasure Technique #4: Explore
Erogenous Zones
Member-focused solo-play is fine, but every once in a while,
explore some erogenous zones. The privates, for instance, can produce a lot of
pleasure. Fondle, rub, or lightly pull them and see how it feels. Most men
forget these hot spots when self-pleasuring, even though many a man complains
about the ladies avoiding them. Check out the perineum (also called the taint)
and see what’s cracking there. Experiment with every area that produces a
shiver of excitement.
Self-pleasure Technique #5: Add a Toy
(or Two)
Oddly enough, society completely embraces and encourages (well,
most of society) women to bring toys into the bedroom to enhance self- and
partner play. Men, on the other hand, don’t seem to get that same suggestion
openly. Invest in some sensual aides to help with solo pleasure. Consider
things like beads, rings, and other instruments to breathe a little fresh air
into the solo-play process. Fleshlights or member sleeves are also super
popular and create a snug fit that feels more like the real thing. Make like
Lewis and Clark and explore this new toy land!
No matter how a man does it, he should be sure to take good care
of his member after stroking. Cleanse and rinse the member thoroughly and
follow with airdrying or by patting with a soft towel. Go the extra mile and
massage a formulated male organ health creme (health professionals
recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which
has been clinically proven safe and mild for skin) on the member to
nourish, protect, and fortify the member. Look for cremes that fight nerve
damage with L-carnitine and boost blood flow vitamin C to keep the member
sensitive and robust.
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