7 Reasons Why Compatibility is More Important than Chemistry in a Relationship

by Astro Ved Online Astrology Consultation

Chemistry and Compatibility

Chemistry usually refers to a scientific study or subject, but it can denote ‘emotions’ in the context of relationships. ‘Chemistry’ can be an impulse or intuitive feeling that may convey that the bond between the two can work well and that their relationship together can ‘click.’ Compatibility, on the other hand, simply means harmony or camaraderie, which is very important for any relationship to work in the long run.

Chemistry has its own place in a bond, especially in its initial stages, and can help any relationship take off. Still, it is Compatibility, which can matter the most as the relationship proceeds further. This can act as a glue that cements a relationship and is absolutely essential for strengthening it and making it long-lasting.

Here, let us try to learn about the 7 reasons why Compatibility can matter more than Chemistry in any relationship.

1. Comfort:

A relationship becomes worthwhile only when the partners involved remain comfortable with each other. Only then they can be their true selves in front of the other or while dealing with the other, and need not put up an act or pretenses to cover up their true personalities. They need not also sugar-coat their expressions or sweet talk their partners in order to impress them and get things done. It is only Compatibility that can provide them with this comfort and pave the way for an honest relationship.

2. Mutual Respect:

Mutual respect between partners is one of the foundation stones on which any good relationship can rest. The complete agreement between the two is not always possible in a bond, but even in case of disagreements, the respect that the partners hold for one another can make them see the other’s point of view with empathy, listen to the other without rancor and agree to disagree with no feeling of loss of face or self-respect. This healthy respect flows from the Compatibility that exists between the two.

3. Goals and values :

There will generally be a convergence of goals and values in life between the couples who enjoy at least reasonably good compatibility between them. The two are different personalities and hence may be of different traits and characteristics, but still may possess the maturity to appreciate and share the other’s goals and values. This can also help them to have a common vision for the future. Thus, their compatibility can help them to have a similar outlook on life.

4. Seeing a Shared Future:

Satisfying the carnal desires, meeting the material needs, and fulfilling the domestic responsibilities are not the only purposes of a fruitful relationship. The partners should be able to see each other as part of their common future, which they hope to share for a long time. And it can only be sound compatibility that can act as an effective enabler in this regard.

5. Mutual Admiration:

Admiration of the partner goes much beyond mere physical attraction and involves the appreciation of the other’s mind and emotions. It is a form of acknowledgment of the partner’s presence in the relationship and its value. This requires looking beyond the obvious, having a feel of the partner’s inner self, and being comfortable with it. A truly compatible couple can achieve this in their companionship and lead a life of respect and admiration.

6. Free Exchange of Views:

When the personalities bound together in a relationship are able to talk to each other freely and share their thoughts, feelings, and emotions, as also their fears and problems without any inhibitions, that can remain a real test of affinity between the partners. More the Compatibility between the partners more can be the free exchange of views between them, and more durable their relationship.

7. Equal Say:

It is essential for both partners to have an equal say in any relationship, for it to flourish and prosper. Hence non-domination, non-interference, and non-imposition of a partner's views on the other are very important for the health of the bond. And the Compatibility that the couple enjoys between themselves can make this happen.

It can thus be seen that Compatibility is not merely more important than Chemistry; it also remains the very cornerstone of any intimate, harmonious, and successful relationship.