5 Easy Ways to Help Your Child Deal with an Autistic Sibling
by Aamaya Bahar School HubsWe
parents understand how to deal with an autistic child, as we read and
study; however, young children lack this ability. If you are among those
parents who are raising a normal child along with an autistic child, then it is
part of your responsibility to explain to them about autism and how to deal
with their autistic sibling, explains a senior child expert at a renowned NGO
in North Delhi.
Let us
see how we, as parents, can explain our autistic child’s behavior to their young child and help them understand their
sibling better:
- Explain: Educate them what autism is and
how autism affected children do things differently from others, say a
senior child psychologist at one of the special schools in Delhi.
Inform them about certain common behavior that autistic children are most
likely to exhibit like they do not usually make eye contact, they take
time to make friends, they might show unusual behavior and stammer or
repeat words, indulge in certain actions, and find difficulty in
expressing feelings and emotions. This will definitely help your child to
understand their autistic sibling in a better manner and they will be
equipped to deal with them while interacting or playing.
- Overcome: Help them
overcome embarrassment due to their sibling. Sometimes your other child feels embarrassed or
ashamed of their autistic sibling and tends to cut-off from them, explains
a senior child psychologist at one of the best special schools in
Delhi. It is because your autistic child behaves in ways that look
strange. Few of such actions could be – repeating certain words, covering
their eyes, face, and ears with hands, waving or flapping of hands,
jumping or fidgeting. It is pertinent that you explain to your normal
child why the autistic children perform these actions and tell them that
it is difficult for them to regulate their behavior or sometimes to soothe
themselves.
- Educate: Teach
them to talk in simple and clear language to tackle behavioral issues. Sometimes your autistic child
exhibit difficult behavior, such as spitting, biting, eating non-edible
items, pinching, pushing, and attempting self-injury, advice a senior
faculty at an NGO in Delhi. They indulge in these actions as
they are unable to comprehend what they are told and experience sensory
overload or just feel tired. It is hence very important to educate your
normal child to talk to them with patience and in short clear words and
sentences and support them to communicate.
- Support: Mostly, your autistic child may not be willing to bond
easily with those around them. So, even when your other child wants to
play with his/her sibling, they might simply draw a blank, explain a
senior child psychologist at one of the best special schools in
Delhi. This might render your other child feel disappointed, angry, or
confused. The best thing to avoid such confusions is to involve in family
activities where you can also be involved, such as playing board games or
perform outdoor activities.
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Encourage : It can sometimes cause
stress to your normal child when they have to deal with their autistic
sibling, explains a senior faculty in one of the best special
schools in Delhi. So, it is mandatory to encourage your normal child
to talk and discuss problem areas with you and tell you how they feel.
This will also help you understand their situation and support them or
advise them how to tackle the family issues and relieve their stress at
the same time.
For most
parents, it is a herculean task to raise children with different developmental
needs . When the age gap is less it becomes even more difficult. However, with
patience and constant discussions and educating your normal child about their
autistic sibling definitely makes life a lot easier. All the best!
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