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Complaining Is Just A Waste Of Time Anyway!!!

by Toshiba Burton Social Media Consultant


Did You Know That You Can't Complain Your Way To Happiness??? 

 

In fact the more you complain the more miserable you will make yourself. Now the moment you put a stop to it & start looking forward instead of looking backwards I promise you that your whole life will begin to change.

 

Quit worrying about the past and the things going on around you that you cannot change. Instead put that time and focus on what really matters in your life right now.

 

Things won't always to according to your plan but this is still no excuse for you not to live a life of peace and abundance. The funny thing about life is that people can sometimes be rude and obnoxious but do not allow this negativity and ignorance to destroy your mindset.

 

You yourself have the awesome ability inside of you to find the good in your life with all that's going on in today's economy which I'll have to admit can be very scary and frustrating at times.

 

But you can do this by keeping your mind on what really works by staying focused on the real value and abundance that your life holds.

 

This will take you a long way in your lifetime. Just remember you can't push anyone out here to make you into a happy person.

 

Only you can find peace andjoy at any time and moment by keeping your mind on where you want to be.

 

Before you know it you will get there if you don't allow any distractions to get in your way and stop you!!!

 

Have An Awesome Day My Friends!!!!!

 

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About Toshiba Burton Senior     Social Media Consultant

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Comments

Philippe Moisan Magnate II   Tutorial videos, sci-fi writer
I hope you don't consider reality check comments as complaining :)

I love your article, just one thing :( No video ?
Jan 29th 2011 09:29   
Philippe Moisan Magnate II   Tutorial videos, sci-fi writer
You know why complaining is so popular ?

1- It sounds smart to some ( many ? ) people
2- It's a way to get attention
3- It passes time
4- Many are more comfortable complaining than talking about positive things :(
5- The news bulletins get less audience when they try to be positive
6- People are so used to complaining, changing is hard, especially if you think you might be ridiculed or, worse, rejected

That's off the top of my head. There are so many other reasons...
Jan 29th 2011 09:34   
Cheryl Baumgartner Professional Premium   Medical Billing/Coding/Insurance
God Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference.

That's it in a nutshell
Jan 29th 2011 09:43   
Toshiba Burton Senior   Social Media Consultant
Philippe I believe you are right complaining is easier than being positive & changing the situation!!
Jan 29th 2011 09:49   
Toshiba Burton Senior   Social Media Consultant
Cheryl thanks for your blessing I got it!
Jan 29th 2011 09:49   
Philippe Moisan Magnate II   Tutorial videos, sci-fi writer
Cheryl, we should restart the AA group here, the APSense Addiction group LOL

Toshiba, amen to that
Jan 29th 2011 10:00   
Allan Haastrup Senior   Networker
Great Read Toshiba. Thankyou for sharing.

Also, the fact that by complainign about things, being annoyed by the actions by other people, you actually send a lot of your energy to them, letting them control your mood.

So be a puppetof someone else, or in control yourself!

@Philippe, you are right on with your comment #2
@Cheryl, love that serenity prayer, live by it.
Jan 29th 2011 10:02   
Toshiba Burton Senior   Social Media Consultant
Hey Philippe working on some new vid's stay tuned!
Jan 29th 2011 10:08   
Toshiba Burton Senior   Social Media Consultant
Hey Allan you are so right when you hold grudges, stay miserable and mad at someone else you are allowing them to control you.
It took me a long time to figure this one out but eventually I did!
Jan 29th 2011 10:10   
Pastor David Turnipseed Advanced   Get Paid into $1299 position Just by bringing in 6
interesting,good reading
Jan 29th 2011 10:24   
Toshiba Burton Senior   Social Media Consultant
Well thanks Pastor Turnipseed have a blessed day!
Jan 29th 2011 10:42   
Linda Fausset Innovator   
Great article, visually pleasing as well. Good job all the way around. Besides some solid suggestions for living a happier moment.
Peace and Prosperity
Linda :-)
Jan 29th 2011 12:14   
Toshiba Burton Senior   Social Media Consultant
Thanks for your inspiration LindaFausset
Jan 29th 2011 12:17   
Toshiba Burton Senior   Social Media Consultant
Thank you lottomediale
Jan 29th 2011 12:17   
Barbara DelGiudice Committed   Owner of Adkreator.com
Hi Toshiba this is the best attitude to have in life. I believe in this strategy of thinking, also. It will truly make your life a better one to enjoy your life moment by moment even though there may be future plans ahead. :)
Jan 29th 2011 16:17   
Gwen Ramirez Innovator   
Hi, this article is really truly true... Move on f0rget the past.. The important is the present and l0ok the future w/ a smile.
Jan 29th 2011 16:55   
Paula van Dun Magnate II   Retired
Very good advise Toshiba. I also do not waste energy an things I can not change, unless I think it is worthwhile trying, like teaching people not to spam. In general I think possitive and move forward. But in rare occasions it happens that things happen that obset me so much that it blocks me to stay possitive and focussed. In those rare cases I write it of my chest. Than I am done with it and move on.
Jan 29th 2011 17:29   
Lisa W. Advanced   EBusinsess
There are many verses that remind me not to complain so much as I have always wondered why people act the way they do. Then one day someone said people are people, they do what they do. I started saying and now it stuck. People are people and they have jobs to do. My job is to learn not to let people or situations get me to going and to be honest that brings you to a state of peace and joy. I still have issues but I do not ponder on them. If cannot change just tell my legion of angels my issues in the name of Jesus or talk to Jesus or God. It works out better and I am not going crazy doing God's job.

The verses are:

Philippians 4:12
I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.
and

Hebrews 13:5
Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you."

The problem was I couldn't have believed in God or Jusus if I could not even believe those words. Believe is an action word and for a long time I prayed he was real, but one day he made it perfectly clear he was very real and because I had being used to suffering I just expected it. Then one day I decided that come what may, it all works out for the glory of God and to help others along the line. My life had truly been hell on earth probably from the time I was born and one day God showed me that I was stronger than most and had many gifts he gave me to help others.

It is not about the trial itself but how you come out of it and I have just learned some trials I do not want to go through again and all my tribulations were because I tried to play God. I know my place and I may think of complaining and may even speak for a minute but I give it to God and move on. I know in the midst of it all he is there and will never leave or forsake me, unlike I used to do to him. I believe that is called faith and without it and love we actually are just truly being tossed to and fro.
Jan 30th 2011 04:14   
Jibril Babangida Bala Committed   Consultant.
Good discussion i like your support.
I call it support because newbies like us always learn from peoples like you.
Thanks.
Jan 30th 2011 06:09   
Philippe Moisan Magnate II   Tutorial videos, sci-fi writer
Toshiba, I suggest you top Lwarrenent's comment, it enriches your article, IMO.
Jan 30th 2011 06:28   
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